The Perfect Circle

The best part of being friends is that, you do not have to be perfect. Yes, that means, you can be as weird or as crazy as you want, and still have the person to go out with you for lunch.

The unpleasantness of being in a relationship is that, you’re pressured to be perfect. Which you are NOT. Bah! I don't really like this part of a relationship. You're pressured to dressed up before a date, maintain good manners (e.g. not burping out loud) and refraining from making fun of that person (which is soo boring). In another angle, if a person starts to "act perfect" with you, if you're not interested with the person... RUN! Anyway, a healthy relationship should not start from false impression of yourself - but that's another topic.

The beauty of true love is.... without having to be perfect... you are perfect in everyway. And that’s as pure as a mother looking at her newborn baby. This is weird actually. This is beyond the explanation of physics but ask any wife "who's the most handsome guy ever"... she'd answer, with a smile, "my hubbie of coz".. yeah right, that dork with the goofy look, goes her friend, silently of course. This would also explain the annoying LOUD remarks from Mommies all over the world like, "she's sooo beautiful!" "he's sooo clever!" to their own children. In fact, this is even true in finding true friends. Coz true friends just don't give a hoot on how you look or the way you dresses up or your lack in communication skill... errmm... anyway... this is because true friends would just accept, care and love you just the way you are - and the way you are - is just perfect for who you are.

So, this would also explains why I think Little Mariam is the most beautiful girl in this world. In fact, to me, she's just perfect. Many would disagree, but for those who loved her as much as I did - would agree with me. Coz things look differently when there's love.

We miss her so much.

The Fairly Odd Daughter

Marsha went to a birthday party last Saturday.
Marsha, promise me that you'd smile at the party, kay?

Why?

I was at my company's Business Update Meeting just now and the big boss was showing a page on the violations certain employees did that resulted in a 60-40 share of termination and warning letter. But what’s weird is that, when you’d think that these people must have done something dead serious, the truth is, they were guilty of… well, committing super-dumb violations! Take a look at the list: Misuse of e-mail, abusing the company’s phone, surfing to prohibited sites and etc.

Really, I just can’t understand the people who do stuff like these. I mean, if you can’t fight that freak in you to surf prohibited sites, well, at least, do it using your personal PC… not your company’s laptop. And if you don’t have a personal PC, either go out and buy one or get your head checked. Coz something is terribly wrong with your judgment.

And for people who, for some mysterious reason, think that the phone that’s jacked-up to your cubicle is a stress-reliever machine for you to make ‘special service’ calls (it really do happens – sicko!) or a 2hr brag-about-my-armani chat with a friend who lives on the moon… get your head checked too :P