The best part of being friends is that, you do not have to be perfect. Yes, that means, you can be as weird or as crazy as you want, and still have the person to go out with you for lunch.
The unpleasantness of being in a relationship is that, you’re pressured to be perfect. Which you are NOT. Bah! I don't really like this part of a relationship. You're pressured to dressed up before a date, maintain good manners (e.g. not burping out loud) and refraining from making fun of that person (which is soo boring). In another angle, if a person starts to "act perfect" with you, if you're not interested with the person... RUN! Anyway, a healthy relationship should not start from false impression of yourself - but that's another topic.
The beauty of true love is.... without having to be perfect... you are perfect in everyway. And that’s as pure as a mother looking at her newborn baby. This is weird actually. This is beyond the explanation of physics but ask any wife "who's the most handsome guy ever"... she'd answer, with a smile, "my hubbie of coz".. yeah right, that dork with the goofy look, goes her friend, silently of course. This would also explain the annoying LOUD remarks from Mommies all over the world like, "she's sooo beautiful!" "he's sooo clever!" to their own children. In fact, this is even true in finding true friends. Coz true friends just don't give a hoot on how you look or the way you dresses up or your lack in communication skill... errmm... anyway... this is because true friends would just accept, care and love you just the way you are - and the way you are - is just perfect for who you are.
So, this would also explains why I think Little Mariam is the most beautiful girl in this world. In fact, to me, she's just perfect. Many would disagree, but for those who loved her as much as I did - would agree with me. Coz things look differently when there's love.
We miss her so much.
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